Compassionate Communication
On the workshop
I have had some suberb learnings on the CC workshop that I just wanted to share here. The most powerful learning came through from watching a role play of a real live situation. It became visible that what blocked connection was the story of the past and how much the old wounds matter very much but often holding on to these things is the very thing that prevents growth within relationship. A very powerful scenario!
In addition to this learning the new transformational language will almost be a skill to adopt on its own, learning the difference between non feeling words and feeling words will be a challenge in itself. We explored what becomes a stratagy for needs being met and what is just simply identifying your needs, a significant way of telling is when you have brought someone else in to your needs being met. There is a need to tread carefully here, more often than not if someone is the focus of your needs being met then you could be at risk of entering jackal territory, jackal is power over, if your in jackal mode your not able to see or care if you hurt another person.
We want to create a herd of girrafes who understand their jackal talk.